Etiquette Training

Etiquette training teaches DVCS students to use their words, conduct, and presentation to represent Christ with excellence and bless their neighbor. Each December, Kindergarteners and Upper School students (Grades 7-12) begin their etiquette classes.

Etiquette training includes lessons in traditional and contemporary manners, including eye contact, posture, proper greetings and introductions, the art of conversation and graceful exits, how to escort a lady, dining manners, making a toast, and being present by putting away phones.

Each Spring, our students put their polish to practice at a sophisticated, purposeful Protocol event. Through seven years of etiquette training, we aim to cultivate men and women who embody a pleasant, controlled, and respectful nature. Wherever the Lord may lead them next, we trust that He will use these skills to help them walk in a manner worthy of their calling (Ephesians 4:1).

Protocol Events by Grade

  • Kindergarten: Dolled and suited up, our youngest students put their etiquette skills to the test with a tea at the Greenville Country Club. Lush garden views and elegant tablescapes make for the sweetest opportunity to grow in both courtesy and confidence.
  • 7-8th Grade: Social graces are put to practice with a dessert and punch reception. Students practice approaching and conversing with adults in a cocktail-style engagement and transitioning to seated conversation.
  • 9-10th Grade: In a semi-formal cocktail reception, students practice balancing a plate full of food while offering a firm handshake and warm conversation with adults. Following this reception, students attend a daytime production, such as a performance at Sight and Sound, to practice conducting themselves at an event.
  • 11-12th Grade: Public officers, professionals, and board members are formally invited to engage our juniors and seniors at High Protocol. After a vibrant off-site cocktail hour, students enjoy a formal seated dinner with opportunities to give toasts. The evening concludes with a visit to the symphony or opera, creating a purposeful, elegant experience.

Etiquette Protocol Story Films

PROTOCOL: K TO 12TH GRADE
PROTOCOL: 7-8TH GRADE